Esposita Tips for The Big Day
Assigning Tasks:
It’s important to remember to give tasks to trusted helpers on the big day. Don’t forget about those loved ones who attend all of the festivities, but who don’t have a significant role. If they’ve expressed interest in assisting you or the wedding party, this is a great opportunity to give them a chance to do so.
Tweens and teens: These young ladies are a bit old for flower girl duties, and since you’ve opted to do without junior bridesmaids, they are squeezed out of the bridal party. Make them feel needed by asking them to be your ‘personal assistants’ during the rehearsal and pre-wedding preparations. They will be great help when you suddenly remember that you need to re-apply lipstick and your purse is in the other room!
The stepmother: She is a new person in your life, and hasn't been included in a great deal of the traditional motherly duties. It’s completely understandable since you have only known her for 2 years. Whatever the circumstances, it’s imperative that she feels needed on that big day. Remember that it is not only your day. The entire family is coming together to celebrate and it’s a great opportunity for some much-needed family bonding. Make your new stepmother feel needed by asking for some simple opinions on things such as flower placement, bustle options for your dress and even musical choices for the reception. Small details such as those will add up in the long run, and your relationship will certainly benefit.
Keeping the peace with all of the most important people in your life will make your big day even more special. Your wedding is only one day in your life, but your relationships with your family will last a lifetime.
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